Things you should never compromise, ever!
If you grew up like me you heard of how people emphasized hardwork, sacrifices and selflessness.
And to some point we made it part of our blood which is absolutely okay.
But compromising? We are told to compromise at school
Compromise at work
Compromise in relationships
Compromise in a large group setting
Compromise when it comes to finances.
Well …..
It’s all good if you ask me but I love to say balancing things is even wat better
One-sided is never a good thing.
So there are just some things you should never compromise not in your wildest dreams, not for your family not for anyone.
Especially girls and ladies. Men too!
Your solitude time.
If you died today your boss would hire someone. If you died today your clothes would be given to someone else and your money would be spent by others. You know what I’m talking about you, find time each day to spend time alone away from anyone yes even your baby and your partner. Just be alone with no gadget and just sit down to relax.
Rest
Please proritise rest, if you don’t give your body rest your body will make you rest. And you know what that means more money strain on your close ones and work.
So Mr Busyness and Mrs busyness I request you to rest. You can do the dishes the next day, you can finish up you can skip a single day so that tomorrow your performance is terrific.
Money
You know those people who are like, dude I have no money to lend you and you find them buying stuff. And you’re like but he said he has no money.
The truth is he actually has no money but he’s the painful part to give you!
Adopt that mindset to have money that you can’t lend anyone that’s just yours. Being too goody will make you go broke so save that money.
Attention
So regardless who you are. You owe someone attention, especially parents yes please give your little ones attention. It’s a different thing to buy her toys and not do the love anyone can buy the toy but the attention. Give attention to your siblings, parents, partner. Just give them . Half of the conversations and broken relationships wouldn’t be broken if only someone gave attention. And your children will be so aware when they get into relationships.
So give attention to them and even you. When was the last time you noticed greed creeping on and you worked on it.
Never? Because you’re too busy on IG.
And lastly your…
Faith.
Whatever faith you hold you no there’s someone higher than you. Work on your relationship with your creator. Never allow anyone and thing to come between you and your creator. Draw closer to him and he’ll draw things that you need closer to you.
Being good
Yes be good always I know some kids are annoying and adults as well but be good. For your sake your good health and mood.
Like each time someone makes you pissed off just get up and dance or do some affirmation like do bees ever listen to flies boasting about shit.
But don’t lose your cool. Govern you. It’s your responsibility to respond so don’t react.
